Yes, the FM Products PCC 9mm Heavy Buffer will be compatible with the PX-9 and function as intended.
Yes, the FM Products PCC 9mm Heavy Buffer 6.5 oz w/ .308 Carbine Recoil Spring will fit and function in a 9mm AR9 as long as you are using a carbine length buffer tube/receiver extension.
The FM Products PCC 9mm Heavy Buffer 6.5 oz w/ .308 Carbine Recoil Spring is designed for 9mm PCC. I recommend the buffer assembly at the link below to be used with an AR10 chambered in 6.5 Creedmoor.
https://www.opticsplanet.com/jp-enterprises-gen-2-silent-captured-buffer-spring-system.html?_iv_parent-gun-model=ar-10&_iv_gun-model=ar-10,dpms-lr-308
The FM Products PCC 9mm Heavy Buffer has a slightly increased length which doesn't require the use of a spacer.
FM sells a heavier buffer for 45acp PCCs.