This is meant for the Mil-Spec lower receiver.
I have one installed in an Aero M4E1 and it fits perfectly and works great.
Ofcourse it works in an M4E1 lower. The M4E1 IS milspec in all dimensions. Whomever said it wasn't is just wrong.
It has 5 enhanced features (such as the flared magwell, set screw, etc) but none of those impact the dimensions or interchangeability with AR parts.
It sounds like you got a busted Timney trigger. I have too, but don't blame the M4E1.
An M5E1 lower is not milspec, but that is because no AR10 lower is.
I have an aero M4e1 and it fits and functions perfectly. Rest assured friend.
I have this combination and they are a perfect fit!